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Author Archives: Shashidhar Bairapu - NLP Practitioner and Life Coach
Defining Moments
I was yet to learn lot many things in life.
Do you have suckers for friends? Here is how to identify them?
No friendship is worth your peace of mind!
What requires for a healthy relationship?
Never ever dare to reconcile a married couple, biological siblings, first cousins and thick friends.
kabhi kabhi mere dil mein khayal aata hai
कभी कभी मेरे दिल में ख़याल आता है (Sometimes, in my heart a feeling emerges) A popular song from a Bollywood movie Khabi Khabie. Though I have been listening to this song almost every day, this morning it was an Aha feeling and totally different one as I was touched by these particular lines ofContinueContinue reading “kabhi kabhi mere dil mein khayal aata hai”
Brain doctor or Behavior teacher?
Feedback is a driving force, be it from friends, strangers or clients. Now, consider the below comment I received more than a decade back… “…. Sir, I know you are really investing a lot of time and trying your best to teach my son who is an idiot. We have long lost hope. Now we wantContinueContinue reading “Brain doctor or Behavior teacher?”
Listen to Everyone but Make Your Decision
Do you seek other’s approvals? How does others opinion weigh on your happiness level? Do you take your own decisions or do you alter your decisions according to people’s opinions? A young woman went on a shopping spree and purchased a hand-made bag with her first earning. As soon as she reached home, her sister made bad comments onContinueContinue reading “Listen to Everyone but Make Your Decision”
Competence
What clients are really interested in is honesty, plus a baseline of competence – Patrick Lencioni Unconscious incompetence → Conscious incompetence → Conscious competence → Unconscious competence As we move on in our career and new roles, there will be moments of awkwardness especially don’t you know even this? Or How did you come thisContinueContinue reading “Competence”
Remember to Remember you have every resource within you
Remember to Remember you have every resource within you How many of us bank on balms and ointments to get relief from headaches and joint sprains? Many of us, most of the times, isn’t it? But why? Our mind knows very well that an ointment would reduce pain and aches. Have you ever realized thatContinueContinue reading “Remember to Remember you have every resource within you”
DISSOCIATE THE CHILD IN YOU WITH THE INTELLECTUAL IN YOU
How many times have you made a resolution and within days you gave up? The most common of resolutions include with majority diet and fitness. I personally had that weakness – I couldn’t give up samosas and green mirchi bajji (Hyderabad style) even after a strict no from my doctor who treated me for acidity. SomeContinueContinue reading “DISSOCIATE THE CHILD IN YOU WITH THE INTELLECTUAL IN YOU”
Shashidhar Bairapu 